There are some women out there who just don’t know how to be loved. They are guarded, busy, women who are very much hidden within themselves. But just because these women don’t know how to be loved, doesn’t mean that they are not worth being loved. There is so much love and potential there that is just waiting to be coaxed out.
Here are some tips for learning how to love a woman who doesn’t know how to be loved:
She has walls up to guard herself. Despite how wonderful and dedicated you are, those walls WILL take time to come down. Don’t try and rush her into anything. Take the pace slower than you would normally think. She’s worth waiting for, and trying to push things may make her bolt or build those walls up even more.
For a girl who spends most of her time in her own head, it can be pretty overwhelming to try and step outside herself and share her thoughts with others. If you let her know that you’re interested in what she feels and thinks, she’ll start to feel comfortable and safe with you. She needs to know that her thoughts have value, because she is valuable. Don’t put judgment on what she says and allow her to share herself fully without condemnation. Every person is wonderfully unique and lovely, and by conversing with her, you’re showing her that.