Relationship

Scientists Claim That Couples Who Fight a Lot Really Love Each Other


According to recent surveys, 44% of married couples believe that fighting more than once a week helps them to keep healthy and productive relationships for a long time. In fact, couples who argue often, but always in a peaceful manner, are more likely to stay together because, despite all the small misunderstandings, they know that their love is true and sincere.

1. Fighting saves you from boredom.

Even if you’ve been together for several years, there will always be some things you don’t agree on. And that’s not bad at all — constructive conflicts may fuel the spark of your relationship and make it more exciting.

Just imagine how boring your love would be if you both always agreed on everything! So don’t panic next time you feel that there’s going to be an argument between you and your loved one. Instead, try to make it beneficial for your relationship and future life together.

 

2. Fighting reveals your passion.

Some couples really enjoy intense arguments because they increase their hormone levels. Subconsciously, those people know that fighting is just a sign of their passion, and their disagreement will end up being an even more passionate makeup.

If you want to keep your relationship strong and thriving, it’s necessary to let your emotions out from time to time rather than to hold them in. But don’t forget to finish any argument in a positive way.


 

3. Fighting means you’re more likely to stay together.

According to some studies, the biggest mistake that couples usually make is avoidance — we often feel that something is wrong but say nothing. And this poor communication becomes the most common reason for breaking up.

Although you may believe that discussing sensitive issues won’t do any good for your relationship, that’s actually not true. Fighting allows you to focus on your problems and to solve them before they become too large. That’s why couples who argue together, stay together for a long period of time.

 

4. Fighting relieves your resentment.

Being in a relationship is not that easy — if you care about your partner, you always have to flex your boundaries. And if they don’t do the same for you, you may start feeling resentment.

Not standing your ground when it comes to the things that are important to you may make your partner think that they can have whatever they want, and your resentment will only grow. That’s the road to an unhealthy relationship.

The best way to deal with this problem is to let your negative feelings out and show your partner that you’re both equals with your own needs.

 

5. Fighting makes your connection stronger.

When you’re arguing with your partner, it doesn’t matter if you win or lose. The most valuable thing is that you learn a lot about each other and even more importantly, about yourself.

Small conflicts help both of you reveal your true nature and show your partner how to deal with it. And if you manage to overcome all the challenges together, you will learn how to compromise and strengthen the bond between you.

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