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6 Dangerous Messages in Popular Fairy Tales, and Ways to Protect Your Kids From Them

Fairy tales can sometimes send mixed messages. In fact, when Charles Perrault wrote Cinderella, he ended the story with 2, rather conflicting morals. First, that goodness is more important than appearances and second, in a slightly more cynical tone, that things like courage and intelligence are important, but you need a “godmother” or “godfather” to help you get ahead in life. In other words, there’s no greater magic than the power of networking.


Being good doesn’t mean being a housewife.


© Beauty and the Beast / Walt Disney Pictures
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This message can be seen in Disney fairy tales like Snow White and the Seven DwarfsCinderella, and Beauty and the Beast — the tales of the so-called “home epoch.” Positive characters in these fairy tales are perfect at dealing with household chores, while negative characters know nothing about them.

After watching these cartoons it starts to seem that a good woman is the one whose only interests are her home and household chores, but this is wrong.

Marriage is not the highest award, but one of the possible scenarios.


© The Little Mermaid / Walt Disney Productions
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Most fairy tales are built by the following scheme: “problem — adventure — reward.” Rewards for boys in these fairy tales can be different: love, justice, a title, wealth, etc., while the award for girls is usually marriage. At the same time, modern society no longer considers marriage the only goal and an indicator of maturity. There are many other things a girl might be striving to.

Sometimes the only person who can save us is ourselves.


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Last year Keira Knightley confessed to journalists that she protects her daughter from reading and viewing some fairy tales about princesses. The actress doesn’t like that many of the heroines in these fantastic stories seem helpless and just waiting for a man to save them from a trap.

For example, Cinderella continues to serve her stepmother in her own house and doesn’t even try to stand up for her personal freedom. She was lucky to get a kind fairy godmother and later a charming prince as rescuers. But in real life, that might not have happened.

At the same time, Knightley lets her daughter Edie watch Moana and Frozen.

And it’s you who decides who’s gonna kiss you.


© Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs / Walt Disney Pictures
 

Another American actress, Kristen Bell, considered it necessary to discuss the end of Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs with her daughters. From the point of view of common sense, it seemed strange to her that the prince willfully kisses the girl while she is in her most helpless state.

Bell was concerned that girls might think their agreement to be in a relationship is a secondary thing that doesn’t mean anything, especially taking into account the fact that the princess is probably only 14 at the time of the kiss.

If no one hears you, it doesn’t mean you should lose your voice.


© The Little Mermaid / Walt Disney Productions
  

Another thing that causes concern among modern mothers hides in The Little Mermaid fairy tale. The girl who feels misunderstood by her surroundings risks everything for a prince she has only seen a couple of times. As we know, the whole story ends up becoming a tragedy for the little mermaid in the original.

Experts in the field of family research paid attention to this issue too. According to them, losing one’s voice (which in normal life is associated with thoughts and intelligence) in order to win the prince’s love is not the best behavior for a young girl to observe.

A real healthy girl will never be able to look like a princess.


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Studies show that girls who regularly watch cartoons about princesses have low self-esteem in the future. It’s not surprising because they want to look like their favorite heroine, but it’s impossible due to the body proportions distorted by illustrators.

In order to look good, a woman should take good care of herself and her style, but she won’t be able to get the exact similarity anyway. The earlier young viewers realize this, the better

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